Someone You Know Says: “I Didn’t Know You Did That?”

Published by Joe Mechlinski on March 4th, 2010 and is filed under Sales.

Boy look up and scratches his head

Let’s be honest, how many times does someone who knows you fairly well still say, “I didn’t know you did that?”

For whatever its worth, entreQuest has been around for more than nine years and my PARENTS are still trying to figure out what I do every day.

So what does this mean?

Possible several things:
1.      People don’t like you. (sorry loser)
2.      They don’t want to know what you do. (probably a bigger loser than #1)
3.      You have told them and they forgot. (you weren’t memorable)
4.      You have told them but they weren’t listening. (you weren’t engaging)
5.      You have told them in a way that wasn’t COMPLETELY clear. (you mumble)

Here is the reality – it doesn’t matter whether it’s #1, #4 or all of the above, your job in sales, business development or as the owner of a  business is to educate and communicate to your community.  The only to know you have done this successfully is if your business is growing via word-of-mouth or reputation based lead generation.

Ask any teacher, education and communication is not an event but a process.

So the question is, how are you educating your community on an on-going basis and not a one-time event?

At entreQuest, we look for a few things:
1.      How can you help them first? (try listening)
2.      How can you be more interested in them vs. the other way around? (try listening more)
3.      Use all forms of media and mediums: in-person, phone, email, social media, blogs, videos, SMS and anything else you can get our hands on. (keep listening but keep it interesting for them to read)

Past this, have patience with people that you have yet to do a GREAT job of educating.  Old studies would say it takes seven times to get your message across for people to buy.

All I know is whether its seven times or 70, communication is the response you get back.  So if people aren’t responding to you – re-read the above – 70 times!

Be YOUR best,

Joe

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4 Responses to “Someone You Know Says: “I Didn’t Know You Did That?””

  1. Paul Dube Says:

    Joe;
    This really hit home, I have had this happen to me many times. I have had clients come to our office and warehouse, look around and say- “I didn’t know you did this!” Of course I’ve only been telling them for years.
    Point is “keep on, keep on-ing”.

  2. Eric Polatty Says:

    Great tips. Joe, what is a good rule of thumb to know whether or not you are “over-doing” self-promotion in social media?

    Classic case study: “biggest douche in social media”-

    http://digg.com/business_finance/The_Biggest_Douche_In_Social_Media

    Thanks,

    Eric Polatty (Former Entrequest student)

  3. admin Says:

    Paul… I love that saying: “keep-on, keeping-on”! Thanks for the comment and post! Have a great weekend.

  4. admin Says:

    Just depends… easy if people are telling you but it might be more subtle. Easy rule of thumb… are you giving more than you ask?

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