It’s Just A Game
Friday, January 27th, 2012
“What keeps you going isn’t some fine destination but just the road you’re on, and the fact that you know how to drive.” ~ Barbara Kingsolver
Of course we Ravens fans are disappointed. We wanted a trip to Super Bowl XLVI so badly we could taste it, and the way in which we lost that opportunity really stings. Our guys played their hearts out in that championship game… in fact, they totally outplayed the Pats, yet they fell short nonetheless. The Ravens were unable to accomplish their – and by extension, our – goal of bringing the Lombardi Trophy to Baltimore.
But step away from that sad scene for a moment and ask yourself this: why is it that we, as a society, are so hung up on winner-take-all goals and one-shot outcomes set within arbitrary timeframes? This is a phenomenon not only in sports, but also in our schooling, in our careers, in our businesses – even in our personal relationships and our parenting.
What if we were to turn away from outcomes and instead place our emphasis on the craft – on becoming better at what we do every day as a person, as a partner and parent, as a team, as a company, and as a society? It all comes down to the issue of what’s most important, the journey or the destination. We don’t like to talk about journey because we think it means there’s no reason to strive for excellence, because in the end everybody gets a participation trophy, right? Our capitalistic culture would definitely say that destination trumps journey. But if that’s true, why do we never hear a dying person say, “I wish I’d made more money”?
Back to the Ravens. The Super Bowl was their destination, but unfortunately the team bus broke down before they could get there, metaphorically speaking. There’s nothing to celebrate in that, right? But look what happens when we shift our attention to the Ravens’ journey. We see a group of men dedicated to doing their best work every day, practicing and playing to the max. We see men committed to their teammates, their coaches, their sport, their fans, and their community. We see the superhuman effort that goes into amassing a 12-4 record. We see an entire city united in its passion for football and the hometown team.
Sure, there were mistakes along the way, but there’s still room for improvement. When you’re focused on the journey, there isn’t a dead end like there is when you’re fixed solely on the destination. With destination, you risk running into a big red stop sign at some point. With journey, there’s always a tomorrow. There’s always more road. It’s always first and goal – and it’s always your ball.
Veteran Ravens linebacker, Ray Lewis understands the power of journey. Here’s part of his postgame speech to his teammates following the loss to the Patriots:
God has never made a mistake. It ain’t about one play.
This year, we did what we were supposed to do. We fought as a team. There will be one Super Bowl champ crowned at the end of this year, that’s it. So the way we feel, somebody gonna feel like that tomorrow, and somebody gonna feel like that in a week. That’s a fact. And the fact is, we gotta come back and go to work to make sure we finish it next time. That’s all we gotta do.
… I’m telling you, man, don’t ever — don’t ever — drop your head when it comes to a loss, dog, because there’s too much pain outside of this that people are really going through. This right here makes us stronger. Let’s understand who we are as a team, let’s understand who we are as men, and let’s make somebody smile when we walk out of here. We got the opportunity to keep going, men. Let’s be stronger as a team, men.
Let’s be who we are.
Yes, Lewis gets it. I believe there are three questions we’ll each ask ourselves at the end of our lives: Did I live? Did I love? Did I give? If you lived (or played football, or worked in business) with journey at your center, you’ll be able to answer each of those questions in the affirmative, just as Lewis did in his speech. In that spirit, let’s reconsider the Ravens’ season.
Did they live? Oh yeah. Nobody could suggest that these guys didn’t live to the fullest.
Did they love their sport… their teammates… their fans? Absolutely. Their passion for all three has been an inspiration all season long.
Did they give it their all? Without a doubt. They left nothing on the field, especially in that final game.
Look, I’m a business guy. I care about my team ultimately reaching its destination and achieving excellent results. But the pressure folks put on themselves toward that end sometimes causes them to botch the essential day-to-day stuff, and when that happens, they risk dropping the ball – and isn’t it a shame when you drop the ball just as you’re about to reach the end zone?
So, here’s to a renewed focus on journey for the Ravens – and for all of us. I predict great success in the coming season as a result.
Joe Mechlinski is the President of entreQuest and has partnered with countless leaders to effectively improve their team’s performance, their clients’ experience, and their company’s profits.







